A Word For A Friend

So you’ve got the idea that today is my birthday and later on I’ll share some more about that.  For the time being, I want to put on the record how grateful I am for the friends that have helped me in this my 33rd year of existence. Unlike many years in the past, the […]

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Change of Expectations

This morning my wife and I were talking about expectations.  My wife spoke some words that really inspired me to consider the whole thing about expectations. For example there are people who don’t feel comfortable in some church settings.  The formality of it, the impersonal nature of it and the ability to hide behind the […]

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Upsetting the Status Quo

It is very difficult to be a follower of Jesus Christ and not be an irritant to your culture. Some succeed in not being a full-blown offence to those around them, but most in one or shape or form make those who live in their culture rather uncomfortable. This is not a deliberate ploy to […]

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Not Just For The Sake Of It

I was hearing someone else talk about Christianity being about ‘a relationship not a religion’ and reflecting on what they meant, but what they actually said.  What they meant was to highlight the crucial pivotal role intimate personal relational input is to understanding Christianity.  What they said was that Christianity is not a religion implying […]

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Is There Such A Thing As Safe Sex?

There’s this provocative blogger called Lionel Woods (he’s one of the dudes I recommend in the list on the right).  I love his blogs because he does not tow the line, say the safe stuff and conform to comfortable conventional convenient Christianity.  Obviously having a blog, he has a Facebook account where he leaves even […]

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Whose Fault Is It?

There is something reassuring about finding out whose fault it is.  From the beginning as soon as man was able to blame it on the wife (as opposed to the boogie, which at that time was unavailable) there was that thing of pointing out (not in) whose fault it was and hoping all blame and […]

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