Used or Abused

Lately someone informed me that ‘no one likes to be used’.  I know what he meant, but I’m not sure he got the words quite right. We use things every day.  We use them without being consciously aware that we’re using them.  Take the clothes you’re currently wearing (of course I assume you are wearing […]

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Where Communication Starts …

Big shout out to my brother. He pointed me to this video and I’m glad I watched it.  Just as I am glad to receive any wisdom however simple, as long as it is wisdom and effectively conveyed, and this fits that classification.  Take heed to this piece of wisdom. For His Name’s Sake Shalom […]

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Favourites and Right-Fits

When I was a child I had a suspicion, now as a father those suspicions are confirmed. What on earth am I talking about?  Bear with me, all will be revealed.  I would love to be an interviewer.  Some of the learners in my sessions struggle to believe it, but I actually prefer listening to […]

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Dealing With Real Issues

I love God for putting in my life beautiful people who helped me to deal with real issues from the perspective of being nothing but real.  Real with God, real with the close loved ones and real with myself.  When I had marital issues, these people didn’t fudge around the issue and talk in buzzwords […]

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… And I’ll Never Do It Again

There’s a bit of bother going on in the football world about racist comments made by players.  In the media attention mention was made of a precedent of a player being charged with a racist statement. That case was interesting in that the player charged admitted it and made a public apology for his words […]

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