Never Go Back

In football, it’s often advised to those who have managed a club not to go back and manage that club again.  The thinking is if you were a success at the club before, you’re not guaranteed to be a success again and seriously run the risk of tarnishing the good name you established before.  Likewise […]

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Change of Expectations

This morning my wife and I were talking about expectations.  My wife spoke some words that really inspired me to consider the whole thing about expectations. For example there are people who don’t feel comfortable in some church settings.  The formality of it, the impersonal nature of it and the ability to hide behind the […]

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Origins

This may come as a shock and a surprise to you, but I can often be found thinking about things. (Yeah, there you go for the shock of the day – take your time in recovering from that.)  As in contemplating them and pondering and wondering. For example today I was minding my own business […]

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Is There Such A Thing As Safe Sex?

There’s this provocative blogger called Lionel Woods (he’s one of the dudes I recommend in the list on the right).  I love his blogs because he does not tow the line, say the safe stuff and conform to comfortable conventional convenient Christianity.  Obviously having a blog, he has a Facebook account where he leaves even […]

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Whose Fault Is It?

There is something reassuring about finding out whose fault it is.  From the beginning as soon as man was able to blame it on the wife (as opposed to the boogie, which at that time was unavailable) there was that thing of pointing out (not in) whose fault it was and hoping all blame and […]

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In The Beginning

I love my daughters.  One of the things I love doing is sharing with them a little story before they pray and go to sleep.  I don’t always read from a book, sometimes I enjoy making up stories for them to get involved with and engage with.  Deborah as the oldest is getting into them […]

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