OTKC 20: Do Unto Others

So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets. Matthew 7:12 (ESVUK)

What Did Jesus Mean?

This is widely known as the Golden Rule. Unlike similar ethical teachings found in other traditions, which often state the principle negatively (“Do not do to others what you would not want done to you”), Jesus frames it positively, calling His followers to active goodness, not mere avoidance of harm.

Jesus’ words are not a suggestion for occasional kindness, but a comprehensive standard for all relationships. The phrase “in everything” signals that this command is to permeate every aspect of life. It is not limited to friends or those who treat us well, but extends to all people, including strangers and even enemies (see Luke 6:31). Jesus roots this command in the very heart of God’s law, declaring it the essence of “the Law and the Prophets”—the entire ethical teaching of the Old Testament.

Jesus, the Early Church and Kingdom First

Jesus Himself is the supreme example of “do unto others.” His entire ministry was marked by selfless service, compassion, and sacrificial love. He washed His disciples’ feet, saying, “I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you” (John 13:15). He healed the sick, fed the hungry, welcomed outcasts, and ultimately gave His life for sinners (Matthew 20:28; Philippians 2:5-8).

The early church followed in His footsteps. In Acts, we read that believers “were together and had everything in common. They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need” (Acts 2:44-45). Their love was so remarkable that outsiders marvelled, “See how they love one another!”. They cared for the poor, the sick, and even their persecutors, embodying the command to love not only in word but in deed.

The Old Testament also lays the foundation for this ethic. Leviticus 19:18 commands, “You shall love your neighbour as yourself,” and verse 34 extends this love to the foreigner: “You shall love the alien as yourself, for you were aliens in the land of Egypt”. The call to love is not new, but Jesus brings it to its fullest expression.

Importance of the Command in the Believer’s Life

The command to “do unto others” is not merely a moral guideline; it is a defining mark of genuine discipleship. Jesus links this principle to the fulfilment of God’s law, echoing the Old Testament command: “You shall love your neighbour as yourself” (Leviticus 19:18). The apostle Paul reiterates this, stating, “Love does no wrong to a neighbour; therefore love is the fulfilling of the law” (Romans 13:10).

For the believer, this command is both a test and a testimony. It tests the authenticity of our relationship with God—if we truly love God, it will be evident in how we treat others. It is also a testimony to the world. Jesus said, “By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another” (John 13:35). The Golden Rule is not about reciprocity or self-interest, but about reflecting the self-giving love of Christ. It calls us to initiate kindness, mercy, and justice, regardless of how others behave.

Moreover, the command is empowered by the Holy Spirit. Loving others as ourselves, especially those who are difficult or hostile, is not natural to fallen humanity. It is only as we yield to the Spirit that we can live out this radical love (Galatians 5:13-14).

Practical Steps to Follow the Command

• Examine Your Heart: Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal any prejudice, unforgiveness, or selfishness that hinders love (Psalm 139:23-24).
• Initiate Kindness: Don’t wait for others to act first. Take the initiative to show kindness, even to those who may not reciprocate (Luke 6:27-36).
• Serve Humbly: Follow Jesus’ example by serving others in practical ways—whether through acts of service, encouragement, or generosity (John 13:14-15; Galatians 5:13).
• Practice Empathy: Put yourself in others’ shoes. Ask, “How would I want to be treated in this situation?” and act accordingly (Philippians 2:3-4).
• Forgive Freely: Let go of grudges and extend forgiveness, just as God in Christ has forgiven you (Ephesians 4:32).
• Love Beyond Comfort: Extend love to those outside your immediate circle—strangers, the marginalised, even enemies (Matthew 5:43-48; Leviticus 19:34).

Jesus’ command is not a mere moral platitude, but a call to radical, Spirit-empowered love. It is the heartbeat of the Christian life, the fulfilment of God’s law, and the mark of true discipleship. As we follow Jesus and are led by the Holy Spirit, we will be known as people who “do unto others” with the same love, mercy, and grace that we have received from our Lord.

For His Name’s Sake

C. L. J. Dryden

Shalom

Questions for Reflection

• Is the “Golden Rule” something you’ve found difficult to do?
• How does the Holy Spirit help you to apply this command in your day-to-day life?
• What can you do this week to challenge yourself and others to apply this rule?