There was a clear desire to aggressively sort things.
It didn’t take long, however, to see that the best approach was to check the dynamic in the group. It was good that I took a step back from doing what I first thought. Seeing people and their hurts; desires to express themselves and check their emotional temperature shaped how a word of encouragement was far better than the first train of thought.
It didn’t derail the train, it just said that it would ride from the station at another point.
For His Name’s Sake
Shalom
C. L. J. Dryden
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