The Difference A Word Can Make

It’s one of the best things about praying together.

Praying together and joining our hearts and minds on the same matter can cultivate a closer relationship with those in the group. That closer relationship can give permission for greater vulnerability and honesty.

So it was as we connected to pray that one of the group when asked to pray felt the honesty to share how much of a struggle it was to do so. A number of key issues had accumulated to become such a heavy load that it almost felt stifling to even let out a prayer for the others.

As the rest of the group heard patiently, I could sense the way in which the love of God from the group looked to embrace this person and let them know that the love was available to comfort and strengthen.

One person in particular just spoke to the person. What they said could not have been targeted and timed any better. Consolation, empathy and commitment to standing shoulder to shoulder through the distress. Words on these lines were shared. It did not change the circumstances for the person going through, but it certainly felt like a load was lifted. It felt like the problem shared was a problem lifted to the appropriate place.

It’s the difference a word can make.

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For His Name’s Sake

Shalom

C. L. J. Dryden