I got some sad news today and it made me wonder.
Sad news is a part of life. I realise that and certain sad news is scheduled to come our way as long as we are in a relationship with others.
However much you consider the issue that brings sad news, the impact of the sad news still hits and needs to hit. Sad news reminds me of the deal that comes with life this side of the grave. The deal this side of the grave is that pain happens, illness strikes, as people age so they deteriorate, people are far more fragile than we often acknowledge or want to admit.
As a follower of Jesus there are words He says and those of His followers that can offer consolation. There is a perspective on life that gives me hope even when the sad news comes in.
For all that, I still cry. It still hurts to see people I know and love go through the suffering and pain. It is still a time to weep.
Apparently some believe it’s a sign of weakness to cry. I do not believe that. There is a time to weep. There is a time to cry. I find it hugely healthy as a way to walk through what takes place in sad times. It’s a good thing to allow others that time and space to express that sadness in those ways. I am not at all suggesting that those who don’t cry or won’t cry are foolish or ignorant. I am encouraging those who well up and feel the need to for an outpouring to go ahead and pour out.
I have found pouring out to friends has been very useful. Pouring out to my heavenly Father has been even more therapeutic, because He knows, He cares and He allows me to be even as He shapes my character in the circumstance.
It doesn’t stop the sad news coming, but it reminds me that one day God shall wipe away our tears. One day there will be no more sad news, but glad news.
For His Name’s Sake
Shalom
C. L. J. Dryden
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